I am sure that you’ve got one. This is one of mine. I learned from my mother a lesson about judging others. In my mom’s time, when she was young, the walls were made of vulnerable materials that could catch fire easily. In my grandma’s home, something caught fire. My grandma was a widow with three daughters. When the fire hit, one woman said, Trust the lord, sister Taylor. Momma said, when the fire hit her house, it took 4 to 5 strong men to hold her down. That spoke volumes to me as a little girl. It said, it is not till you walk through the fire and the hurt can you understand the pain. The best thing one can do is care. Even if you don’t fully understand.